
How to Increase Your Influence at Work
- Influencing
How to make your ideas heard and discover the factors that make a good influencer
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How to make your ideas heard and discover the factors that make a good influencer
Whether it’s restaurants, hotels, construction companies, financial institutions, or training companies – We really are spoilt for choice!
Remember a time you made what we here at Impact Factory call an active choice?
Most people don’t listen in order to understand. They listen in order to reply!
If you can distinguish between the two, you will have more say over the possible outcomes!
We’re just trying to muddle through and somehow manage to get things done without anyone getting killed.
Made us both laugh. Of course I’ve talked before about going out to dinner with my husband and at the adjoining table was a family of five with mom and dad and three children of varying teen years. Every single one of them had a device and none of them were talking to each other.
That’s a question we get a lot on our courses. Some people seem really uncomfortable with the idea that to be good at influencing and negotiation it all has to be premeditated.
Many years ago we pinched a really good phrase from a BT initiative they ran back in the
1990s:
Splitting the difference with assertiveness skills. You don’t have to be nasty, just a little less nice will do it!
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It’s not about being nasty – It’s more about becoming a little less nice in a calculated sort of way!
“Could I be that assertive?” asked David Mitchell to himself before joining an Impact Factory session for his BBC programme on Manners.
When you are assertive you able to say ‘no’ with confidence and not feel guilty and give the other person an alternative for when a particular job, for example, can be discussed.
Cross-cultural communication can be a tricky business.
These basic tips can go a long way in minimising misunderstandings and maximising your cross-cultural communication skills.
Here are some very important tips you will want to know — ten ways to be respectful and courteous to your receiver — before you respond to another email.
Most of us tend to communicate in a way that was adaptive in the environment we grew up, but problematic in our lives today.
Today is Martin Luther King Jr day and every year I do take time to reflect on where we are and where we aren’t.
Some years I am full of rage and despair and others, hope and encouragement.
When you know you are supposed to “just shut up and listen,” and you really want to get your point across, you have options.
It’s really hard to say no for a lot of reasons – reasons that unassertive people believe are true usually with very little evidence.
Rumours really are a form of gossip and humans do derive a great deal of pleasure from gossip, whether it’s about colleagues, pop stars, royalty or the neighbour across the road.
Being able to change another’s viewpoint, or your own for that matter can be no small thing.
Is there an unspoken agreement to behave ourselves and not make waves if everyone else does the same?
When it comes to individuals making an impact, personal impact, we think in terms of leaving something behind that wasn’t there before.